Think Thanksgiving, think turkey.  Today we celebrate Thanksgiving – but we served fish.

It’s a Thanksgiving tradition

Come with me on a journey.  This was the view from our Thanksgiving table the first time we were not surrounded by our extended family and our friends – and when we did not have a turkey. It was just our tiny family.

We were not even one month into our social experiment.  We had left our home a few weeks earlier to travel around the world for a year with our young children.  It would be the experience of a lifetime!  But that Thanksgiving Day was one of the first where we felt a pang of homesickness.

We sat by the seashore enjoying “a delicious meal of fried fish, fresh from the sea, with ginger, garlic and pepper, with a side of ginger shrimp, and drank tender coconut”.  (Thanksgiving in Phuket)

And we held hands around the table and gave thanks for each other, and for all the people, blessings and joys in our lives.

We celebrated the warmth we felt by remembering all who loved us, everyone we were missing and who was missing us – because even when we are not in close proximity, we are still joined in gratitude and love.  All while indulging in fresh fish on the beach in Phuket, Thailand, watching a beautiful sunset.

An empty seat at our table

Today there is one more empty seat at our Thanksgiving table.

And it took me back to that first time our family did not celebrate Thanksgiving in a traditional way.  I was grateful for that great memory and gift of special time spent with our young family, for the memory of friends and family following our journey via our blog, for the outpouring of concern for our safety during the Tsunami that happened so soon after our meal on that beach in Phuket – and our memories and hope for all who had served us our ‘Thanksgiving’ meal, for their families, friends and livelihoods.

Far from home, but close to heart

Our tradition continues.  I cooked fish and gave thanks for all our blessings and remembered all who were missing from our table.

And my children?  They called home to chat, ordered sushi (creative!), ate a thanksgiving meal together, and also gave thanks.

Because it is not important what we eat, but that we stay connected.  And that we continue to remember those we love, who love us

and to give thanks for nature’s abundance of gifts to us.

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I’ve started the conversation.  Now it is over to you! The Arena is your space for discussion:

} .. Do you have a tradition that started with a special memory?  What is it?

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INSPIRATION AND MEMORIES FOR THIS BLOG:

• Giving Thanks
• Loi Krathong festival